Last week, I had the pleasure of traveling to Negril, Jamaica, to celebrate a momentous occasion—my best friend of 30 years married the love of her life. The trip was a beautiful reminder of life’s unpredictability, filled with both joys and sorrows that tested our resilience and ultimately deepened our bonds.

The sun was scorching, which added to the challenges we faced. From issues with wedding arrangements that didn’t quite go as planned to lost luggage, misplaced bridesmaids’ dresses, and to top it off, some of us fell ill, adding yet another layer of stress to what should have been a carefree celebration.

Yet, despite the chaos, there was also a wealth of love, laughter, and unforgettable firsts. One of the highlights of the trip for me was riding an ATV for the first time. The experience was exhilarating, a burst of adrenaline that made me feel alive in a way I hadn’t in years. As I sped through the rugged terrain, I couldn’t help but wonder why I hadn’t tried this sooner. It was such a great reminder that life is too short to put off new experiences.

Mike & Tisha Newby at Missile Adventure Park (Negril, Jamaica)

Reflecting on the week, I realized the importance of taking time away from the daily grind. The trip reinforced the value of stepping away from work to prioritize ourselves and our relationships. 

Here are a few reasons why taking your vacation time and using your PTO is not just a luxury but a necessity:

• Recharge and Reset: Life can be overwhelming, and our work often demands the majority of our time and energy. Taking time off allows you to recharge your batteries, giving you the mental and physical break needed to return to work with renewed focus and energy.
• Strengthen Relationships: Time spent with family and friends is irreplaceable. These moments create memories that last a lifetime, reminding us of the importance of our personal relationships. Whether it’s celebrating milestones or simply enjoying each other’s company, these experiences strengthen the bonds that matter most.

• Life /Work Balance: It’s easy to get caught up in the routine of our careers, but life is about more than just work. Trying new activities, like my ATV adventure, adds excitement and variety to our lives, broadening our horizons and enriching our experiences.
• Prevent Burnout: Constantly being on the go without a break can lead to burnout, which can negatively impact your performance and overall well-being. Regularly taking time off helps prevent this, ensuring you stay motivated and productive.
• Prioritize Your Well-being: Taking time for yourself is crucial for maintaining a healthy life-work balance. It’s important to remember that your well-being should always come first. By prioritizing your health and happiness, you’ll be better equipped to handle the demands of your job.

Just remember, your paid time off is time for you to do something for yourself. Prioritize yourself and your relationships as much as you do your work. Use your PTO! Life is short, and the memories we create are the true treasures that make it all worthwhile.